Stress

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Claim

Stress is usually considered a bad thing, however stress can perhaps be useful, and it highly depends on our perception of it.

Explanation

It would be helpful to understand that stress results from a positive procedure in our body. As with other "negative emotions", stress is the mind's way of preparing us for a future event Focus on what you can do next not what went wrong. It readies the muscles, allocates blood and energy to the most important places, as if we are about to encounter a life threatening situation Emotions provide decision-relevant information when navigating choices.

Those who manage to handle stress react to it completely differently. They perceive the situation as a type of challenge that they can prepare for and learn from Adversarial Growth rather than something that would hurt them Helplessness is perceiving no control over circumstances and outcomes.

Converting stress into a Challenge can perhaps negate all the negative effects.

Why it matters

The problem arises when our body is in a constant state of emergency. It hampers our growth and Examining ideas rigorously before accepting them as true, and lets Automatic thinking processes drive fast emotional responses take control. So while we shouldn't be angry at ourselves for experiencing stress, we should still manage it. Although sometimes Being kind to yourself strengthens resilience and growth alone is enough to reduce the stress.

Low and controlled doses of stress can help us become anti fragile, similar to a workout that strengthens the muscles. We can prepare ourselves for worse outcomes by doing stress inoculation We grow stronger by adapting to stress. Those who avoided stressful situations would crash on their first encounter with a serious problem, however those who had experienced hardship before could tackle it with relative ease.

This allows them to perform very well during the stressful moment in comparison with "ordinary people" who are surprised by the moment, and either freeze or do things without thinking.

Examples

By saying "I'm excited to do this presentation" rather than "I'm stressed about this presentation" we can turn negative stress into a source of motivation Turn negative emotions into fuel for growth and action.

Those who manage to handle stress prepare in advance for the moment to come, like a form of Pre-mortem anticipates failure modes to enable preparation. They accept in advance that things might go wrong and think about possible solutions within a safe environment before the challenge begins, like a type of Simulations provide safe practice environments to test and learn.

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🔼Topic:: Peak States and Optimal Experience 🔼Topic:: Emotional resilience enables managing hardship and maintaining composure Origin:: The extended mind (book) ◀Origin:: Anne-Laure Le Cunff 🔗Link::