Mirroring
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Mirroring is a social phenomenon that is triggered by mirror neurons that fire when we observe and imitate another's emotional state. This is the biological reason for Empathy means understanding and acting on another's perspective, because, through the mirror neurons, we can sense the other's feelings. For example, when we see someone eat, we get hungry. Perhaps this is also the reason why Human is a social being, because caring and looking at how others behave is embedded within us.
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There are many potential benefits for mirroring and the empathy it creates:
- Cooperation - by understanding better one another, we are more likely to cooperate
- Shared learning - We learn faster as a group because we don't have to personally reinvent the wheel each time, but rather learn from other's mistakes and copy their behavior Peer support enables collaborative growth through shared feedback and mutual learning.
- Better communication - when we echo other's emotional state and even the words they use to describe their situation, we become better listeners, and we are more likely to communicate better with them.
- Shared identity - mirroring can run deep, with enough exposure we can imitate not just their behavior, but also their values, reasons, and perspective, influencing our identity Identity is shaped by and shapes our social interactions. It is also why we tend to be very similar to our close Deep relationships require trust, listening, and empathy, because we mirror each other back and forth until you are almost "the same person".
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However, we don't mirror others equally. We tend to imitate less those who are from a different group than us Group membership biases perception and shapes intergroup hostility
Since mirroring is mostly an automatic process (although we can also try to spark it), it can create unpleasant consequences such as Herd Mentality. The more we are the minority opinion, the more we are likely to abandon it to fit in with others. This assimilation is not fake; we come to believe what others believe as well.
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